Motherhood is one of the most beautiful and sacred callings God has given. It is a role of nurturing, shaping, and raising the next generation in faith, love, and truth. Yet, in a world that constantly devalues homemaking and the work of raising children, many mothers find themselves battling feelings of resentment, inadequacy, or even a desire for something “more.”
These feelings don’t come from God. They are tactics of the enemy, whispered lies meant to pull us away from our calling and make us believe that motherhood isn’t enough. But Scripture reminds us of the truth—our role is divinely ordained, and no work is more valuable in God’s eyes.
The Enemy’s First Attack: Making Mothers Resent Their Children
Motherhood is sanctifying. It stretches us, humbles us, and requires constant selflessness. The enemy knows this, and he works tirelessly to turn our exhaustion into resentment. Instead of seeing our children as gifts, he tempts us to see them as burdens. He whispers that we never get a break, that our kids are taking away our freedom, that we are just servants constantly cleaning, cooking, and caring for everyone but ourselves.
But God’s Word tells a different story. Psalm 127:3 reminds us, “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward.” Our children are not burdens; they are blessings. They are entrusted to us by God, and every moment spent nurturing them is an eternal investment.
When frustration creeps in, we must recognize it for what it is—a scheme of the enemy. Instead of resentment, we can choose gratitude, knowing that even the mundane moments of motherhood are sacred in God’s eyes.
One of the simplest yet most powerful ways to combat the enemy’s lies about motherhood is to shift our perspective from have to to get to. We don’t have to clean up another mess—we get to create a home where our children feel safe and loved. We don’t have to make another meal—we get to nourish our family with the food God has provided. We don’t have to rock a baby to sleep in the early hours of the morning—we get to hold them close, knowing these moments are fleeting.
This simple mindset shift allows us to see the beauty in the mundane and reminds us that the work of motherhood is a privilege, not a chore.
The Enemy’s Attack on Marriage: Sowing Discontent in Our Hearts
Another common attack of the enemy is the lie that our husbands aren’t doing enough. He wants to convince us that we’re carrying the weight of the home and children alone, that our efforts go unnoticed, and that our husbands should be doing more.
This lie breeds division. It makes us focus on what our husbands aren’t doing instead of appreciating what they are doing. It turns teammates into adversaries. But Ephesians 4:2-3 reminds us, “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.”
Instead of dwelling on what we wish they’d do differently, we can choose gratitude. We can recognize their hard work, their sacrifices, and the love they pour into our families. We can pray for them, encourage them, and remember that marriage is a partnership—not a competition.
The Lie That Homemaking Isn’t Enough
In today’s world, success is often measured by career achievements, financial status, or public recognition. The role of a homemaker is seen as “less than”—as if raising children, creating a peaceful home, and serving a family are insignificant compared to a high-paying job. The enemy fuels this lie, making women feel like they need to “do more” or that they’re “wasting their potential” by staying home.
But Proverbs 31 paints a different picture of a godly woman. She is strong, wise, hardworking, and deeply devoted to her home and family. Proverbs 31:27 says, “She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.” God values the work of a mother. He sees every meal prepared, every bedtime prayer, every scraped knee kissed, and every sacrifice made for the well-being of a family.
A mother’s work is kingdom work. The world may not see it, but heaven does.
Comparison & The Trap of Social Media
Another way the enemy works against mothers is through comparison. Social media bombards us with highlight reels—mothers who seem more patient, homes that seem more put together, women who appear to “have it all.”
Satan loves to whisper that we aren’t doing enough, that our home isn’t beautiful enough, that we are failing as moms. But 2 Corinthians 10:5 reminds us to “take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” The enemy wants us to believe that our efforts aren’t enough, but God calls us to focus on faithfulness, not perfection.
Overcoming the Lies with Truth
The best way to fight back against these attacks is to fill our hearts and minds with the truth of God’s Word.
When resentment creeps in, we can remind ourselves of Colossians 3:23, “Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.” When we feel unseen, we can rest in Hebrews 6:10, “God is not unjust; He will not forget your work and the love you have shown Him as you have helped His people and continue to help them.” When we question our worth, we can stand on Proverbs 31:25, “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.”
Motherhood as a Spiritual Battle
Motherhood is more than just raising children—it’s raising disciples. The enemy knows that if he can discourage mothers, he can weaken families. But we are not powerless. We have the Word of God, the Holy Spirit, and the authority to rebuke the lies that try to take root in our hearts.
If you’ve ever struggled with resentment, doubt, or feeling like your role isn’t enough, you are not alone. But take heart—God sees you. Your work is holy, and every small act of love and service is building something eternal.
Let’s press on, knowing that in the eyes of our Creator, motherhood is one of the highest callings we could ever have.
